Phoebe Cary

Poems

"When Lovely Woman"

When lovely woman wants a favor,
And finds, too late, that man won't bend,
What earthly circumstance can save her
From disappointment in the end?

The only way to bring him over
The last experiment to try,
Whether a husband or a lover,
If he have feeling, is, to cry!

See also: Oliver Goldsmith's song in "The Vicar of Wakefield:"

When lovely woman stoops to folly,
And finds too late that men betray,
What charm can soothe her melancholy?
What art can wash her guilt away?

The only art her guilt to cover,
To hide her shame from every eye,
To give repentance to her lover,
And wring his bosom, is -- to die.